Human, Again
Not a sales page. An invitation to feel like the human you are again.
Dear Kindred Spirit,
I’ve been watching you get a little lost in the woods of other people’s lives.
It’s happens so quickly, doesn’t it?
That familiar way you stop taking time for yourself.
Or the way your minimize your needs and preferences until you find yourself expressing them with criticism and sourness.
All your beautiful focus and intelligent action is sacrificed to over-giving and over-planning to make sure the lives around you go smoothly.
All your precious words and mental agility get tugged away to trying to look or be a certain way so others will accept you.
I don’t mean to pry, and maybe I’m wrong about this, but it seems like connecting with others requires a lot of you…
Which makes sense, since you’ve taken on more than your share of mental, emotional and physical labor.
And when that happens, I know - you get so overwhelmed, you blame everyone around you for what you haven’t or can’t do for yourself (and what they aren’t doing for you either).
Maybe you’re even ruminating on planning your exit from your key relationships with partners, friends, family members, even your work.
But the fear of making a big change, of destabilizing your security, of being misunderstood or judged by your loved ones, of being seen in your vulnerable unbecoming & humanity keeps you still and stuck.
Love, when you're overworking in order to care for everyone around you, trying to do right by them and seem like you know what’s right, trying to plan for everything while getting everyone else on board...
What often gets put to the side is your deep emotional experiences and your natural humanity - because you become more mechanical, more rigid, more armored up against the onslaught of problems you think you have to face alone.
Again and again, the smartest, wisest, most ambitious & spirited women who seek my mentoring hit a point where they stop talking about all the things weighing on them and start feeling it:
They let the tears come.
They give voice and movement to all the emotions they've been trying to solve & soothe through prioritizing taking care of all the situations around them.
They ground, and breathe, and open...
They access a deeper layer of themselves that rarely feels secure enough to be spotlighted.
And it is in the act and practice that they begin to be sensitive to & empathize with themselves, creating a compassionate relationship to a part of themselves that doesn't want to sacrifice their raw humanness anymore in order to get along.
I've gotten to watch clients go from strong, tightly closed buds bracing against the constant storms of everyone else’s day to day life...
To open & full blossoms, seeking to move ever so slightly towards the sun, soft petals displayed to their beloveds and a firm system of personal roots that keep them steady.
I've watched people slowly look more human and less machine as they let the support and expansions in my groups sink into the soil of their relating.
And to be sure, I'm not the one making that happen.
But my spaces, as best as they can, offers you secure, warm, expansive, sometimes confronting space to tell the truth of what you experience.
When you let that begin to slowly change you, one small new action at a time, you find yourself transforming into the felt, full human that you naturally are.
Themes I'll be inviting into the space with us:
Re-innocence
Non action as a choice of integrity
Inner peace tending
Closing relationships + cycles
Bringing yourself forward
The communication of change
Creating space + time for yourself
Aftercare + resourcing yourself
Need uncovery + Need meeting
Discernment as self trust building
Loving gaze
Detachment as love
Boundaries as your business
Breaking silence
Dependency and Enabling
Pleasure + play
Releasing expectation
Unity in relationships
Re-inhabiting your life
Sensitivity and feltness
Changing your state
Resentment exploration
Minding our own responsibilities
And whatever else arrives with you.
Friend, so much of my work expression has been about what codependency is.
But in my mentorships, we lean into creating a life that moves you beyond that way of relating…
And unbecoming your codependent self while becoming your most naturally human self seems to be the theme of what occurs.
I’ll never forget the final call I had with the client who sat on the beach, the crash of waves in the background, her curls swept around by the ocean breeze… in the midst of a still unknow future with her husband, telling me:
“I just feel like I trust myself to be with whatever clarity comes, as me now.”
Or the client from one of my first mentorships who, as we rained supportive words over each other’s progress, sat in tender tears as we all reflected how human she looked now - not poised and perfect as she was when she first arrived.
I have a full page of testimonials here if you want to read the stories of some of my clients.
But honestly - sometimes even what they say in reflection doesn’t capture these key micro-moments I dearly get to witness as mentor.
For me, these little moments capture something I have been trying to put into words on sales pages and failing - until I woke up today to rain on the window and enough security in my heart to name the truth:
My spaces hold the folks ready to be sensitive to, inhabit and express their own humanness again, and willing to open enough to be supported in finding new ways of relating, taking action & being with themselves, others & life.
I appreciate you reading this far.
Below you’ll find all the practical parts of this mentorship and links to be one of the 7 that join me over the next 4 months (6 spots left as of 03/23) for this intimate journey and uncovery.
xo
Jenna//
If this resonated, I’d love to support you in my intimate mentorship:
Human, Again
This is a 7 person, 4 month intimate mentorship. (6 spots left as of 03/23)
And it’s for you, the one who is:
Wishing to feel a lot less guilt and more inner peace about living your life as YOU - even as you begin to uncover more of who that is
Yearning to learn how to soften and find yourself in the midst of your day to day life again
Desiring to gain the ongoing courage to show up for your life…and rest when you need it
Wanting to feel less insecure more often and grow the ability to access internal security & confidence, even when life is in chaos around you
Longing for clarity and self trust on making decisions about an important relationship, and the space to voice that process
Craving quality alone time and spaciousness, in order to show /up more present and emotionally available to your loved ones
Learning to advocate for your truth & authenticity, without making others the villain or your rescuer
Hoping to stop tending to the majority of the work load and ease away from what is causing you resentment and bitterness
Needing someone to see and speak to your blind spots as you navigate prioritizing yourself, adjusting yourself into someone else’s flow and needs, and actually feel like you are important, too
There’s no homework here. No extra time required of you than what you spend in session…
Because I want any extra time you create to go towards letting yourself be the human you are in your life (not the A+ client, I don’t need that of you) and practicing what feels resonate from the session in your real life.
Included in the Mentorship:
This space is designed to be simple in order to go deep into the most potent part: the communal relating and the mentoring with Jenna.
This looks like:
Twice monthly group gatherings on zoom (9 total) where Jenna brings in a 10-20 minute contemplation, exercises and/or self inquiry. You then spend the rest of the time sharing, receiving mentoring, asking questions and getting to relate to other members. Don’t let this simplicity fool you, this space really resources you for the shifts your making in your real life. (estimated $1755)
Two Private Calls with Jenna in Month 1 & Month 3 because this way you and I can build rapport and trust, while also having a more private space for truths and experiences that feel too tender or complex for the group. This is where we really get focused time on you. (estimated $400)
Access to a spacious group chat & a private chat with Jenna so you can have a space to turn to when you need to share experiences, be bolstered in your relational wins and feel connected. Jenna’s private chat is also open for emptying out, Q+A, and private requests for mentoring between calls. (estimated $400)
6 out of the 7 seats are left.
Starts the 2nd week of April 2025.
**Dates and times are chosen by the group through an intake survey that will be email to you after you enroll. Anticipated starting week is April 7th, 2025. Call options will most likely be Monday to Friday, from 8 am est to no later than 6 pm est.
Total Value: $2,555 usd
Your (Early Bird) Investment: $1600 $1200 usd
(Early Bird) Payment Plan: 5 monthly payments of $320 $240
SAVE $400 by enrolling before March 26th